What if dating didn't start with a swipe?

That was the starting question a coworker and I were randomly discussing in 2022. We were talking about dating, meeting people, and how different it might feel if there were more spaces for singles to actually connect.

“What would happen if we created a fun space for singles to meet?” 

People are craving connection, but the way we're currently trying to date often doesn't leave much room to actually connect. So I decided to create the room.

Put a bunch of singles around a table playing a game. Get them competing on a kickball field. Teach them how to salsa. Take them camping. Send them on a blind date to a concert. Sit them down for intentional one on one conversation. Give them something to laugh about. Suddenly, the pressure of “I need to find someone” starts to disappear and people start being themselves.

They start talking. They start laughing. They start noticing the person sitting across from them instead of wondering whether they’ll swipe right.

Social Singles isn’t about forcing a love story or promising that everyone who walks through the door will meet their future spouse. It’s about creating opportunities for something real to happen.

I believe people are worthy of feeling seen, known, and connected. I want Social Singles to be the kind of community where you can walk in not knowing a soul and walk out feeling like you found a few people you’re glad you met.

Along the way, those little moments have added up to something pretty incredible.

Friendships have formed. Kickball teams have started. Guys’ nights have become monthly traditions. First dates have turned into many more. Couples have blossomed. And yes, three weddings have come from Social Singles.

There’s something really special about putting a bunch of strangers in the same room and watching them slowly become familiar faces, friends, dates, and sometimes something more.

When I’m not planning Social Singles events or working in the nonprofit world, you can probably find me cheering on the Thunder, traveling somewhere new, trying a new local restaurant, or on a dance floor.

But really, I just love people.

And I love creating spaces where they can find each other.

— Morgan, Founder of Social Singles OKC

What Singles Are Saying

  • “I had such a great time! The event was so well put together, and it was amazing to see how quickly people connected. A group of us ended up continuing the fun together afterward, definitely a successful event!”

    — Miguel

  • "I seriously love going to Social Singles events! I always have the best time and I love meeting and talking to everyone. It’s such a fun way to get out, meet new people, and just have a good time."

    — Sierra

  • "I wasn’t sure what to expect going in, but honestly, it was one of the easiest ways I’ve met people in OKC. I met someone I genuinely clicked with at the event, and have gone on several dates afterward. Definitely worth showing up."

    — Devontae

  • "My first event with social singles I was very nervous, and ran into a girl who was just as nervous. But thanks to an event who forced us both out of our comfort zones I have made a lifelong friend who loves to attend concerts and sporting events just as much as I do. Social singles doesn’t mean you have to get a date, you could end up meeting someone who becomes a best friend!"

    — Lauren

The Proof is in the Numbers

3

weddings

2,500+ 

singles connected

85%

speed dating match rate

100 %

more fun than swiping

Our Community Our Rules

Everyone deserves to be seen.
Every person who walks through our doors has a story worth knowing. Come with curiosity, not expectations.
Show Up with Courage.
Walking into a room full of strangers isn't always easy, but when everyone in the room is open to connecting it's easier to just be yourself.
Be Yourself.
Join activities, mingle, take a break, or simply observe. Engage in whatever way feels best for you..
Build the Community.
Treat everyone with respect, honor boundaries, and help create a space where everyone feels they belong.

Come see what all the hype is about!

Come see what all the hype is about!

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Just show up and we'll take it from there.

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